‘Without Rugby League Cares I wouldn’t be here today’

‘Without Rugby League Cares I wouldn’t be here today’

Rugby League Cares is proud to work for, and with, the sport’s most important stakeholders, its players.

We provide support to players past and present, helping them transition out of the sport at the end of their careers and giving them access to services such as banking, legal advice and insurance through our Business Club.

We’re also here when things go wrong, and have helped many players deal with personal crises over the last few years: we are happy to respect their confidentiality by not reporting the sensitive details of the support we’ve provided.

We are a fully independent charity which relies heavily on fundraising to continue doing what we do: that’s why 26 fantastic people are setting out from Old Trafford on Monday August 20 on the UK Red Ride to Wembley.

The route covers over 300 miles between the venue for the Super League Grand Final and the Challenge Cup final, and will avoid tarmac wherever possible by following bridleways, green lanes, forest trails and canal towpaths across the Peak District and Cotswolds.

The riders include six former RL internationals, who are giving up their time because they recognise the important role we play in player welfare.

Francis Maloney is one former player who is happy to acknowledge the important role RL Cares has played in his life. Here is his story:

“A Great, Cheshire Cat-sized grin breaks across the face of Francis Maloney as he watches a group of youngsters pass a rugby ball slickly across a perfectly-aligned attacking line.

The boys and girls have learned quickly, and are having a whale of a time, as they experience the fun and thrill of playing Rugby League with a coach whose professional pedigree they are largely unfamiliar with.

‘Mr Maloney’ played for 10 clubs in a 17-year career and represented both Yorkshire and England, and his experience is being put to good use in schools around his home town of Dewsbury.

The smile that currently lights up his face has not always been present, however, since injury brought his playing career to a difficult end 10 years ago.

Having spent all his adult life realising his boyhood dream of playing Rugby League, Francis suddenly found himself in a dark and lonely place, a young man with a golden past but an uncertain and uneasy future.

Like a lot of professional sportsmen, Francis had never given any serious thought to what he would do post-rugby and within months of retirement, his life began to fall apart.

Troubled by anxiety and depression and with seemingly no-one to turn to, Francis sought solace in a bottle and behaved in a manner which alienated many of the people he cared about.

His depressive illness led to the collapse of his marriage and the loss of the family home, as well as estrangement from the children he adored.

“I had no-one to turn to and had lost everything,” said Francis. “The thought of asking for help never occurred to me: as a man and as a rugby player I thought I was tougher than that but the outcome was that I had never felt more alone in my life.”

“In 2014 I twice tried to take my own life with unsuccessful overdoses and then decided I would try to gas myself in the car using exhaust fumes.

“I went to B&Q to buy a hosepipe but at the checkout my credit card was declined. My life had reached rock bottom and I didn’t even have the £8.99 I needed to commit suicide.

“The next day I rang the RFL and they put me in touch with Rugby League Cares. Within weeks I was working with Sporting Chance and beginning the long process of turning my life around.

“I’m in a good place now: my relationship with my ex-partner is healthy, my three boys are proud of me and work is coming good.

“I still have issues occasionally but thanks to Rugby League Cares I now have coping mechanisms and can live a reasonably normal life. Without Rugby League Cares I wouldn’t be here today.”

Rugby League players are no different to men everywhere in the UK and have traditionally exhibited a reluctance to admit to, or seek help for mental illness.

The stigma of mental illness is slowly being eroded and men are increasingly aware of the need to take all health issues seriously, although knowing where to turn to for help can be confusing.

“The more awareness that we can raise about the fact that no man has to suffer alone, the better,” added Francis.

“There is always help at hand: the work being done by RL Cares is making a huge difference to the lives of so many people and I hope everyone embraces it.”

If you would like to support our Player Welfare Programme, please sponsor any of the riders taking part in the UK Red Ride to Wembley: every penny raised comes straight to the charity.  Most of the riders have their own Justgiving page – full details are here